If you're planning a funeral for yourself or for a friend, family member or partner who was non-religious, a humanist funeral may be a fitting approach. These non-religious ceremonies focus on celebrating the individual’s life without reference to religion, spirituality or the afterlife.
What is a humanist funeral?
A humanist funeral is a non-religious service that celebrates the life of a loved one. It is typically chosen when the deceased did not follow a religion or identified as a humanist or atheist.
Unlike religious funerals, humanist services do not include prayers, hymns or references to a god or afterlife. Instead, they focus on:
the life, character, and values of the person who has died
personal memories, stories and tributes
shared reflection among those in attendance.
If you'd like to learn more about humanist beliefs, Humanists UK is a helpful organisation offering resources and community for non-religious individuals.
What happens at a humanist funeral?
Although non-religious, a humanist funeral may follow a structure similar to traditional services. However, every element can be personalised to reflect personal preferences.
A typical humanist funeral may include:
music (recorded or live)
words of welcome and introduction
thoughts on life and death from a non-religious perspective
a personal tribute or eulogy
readings of poetry, prose or letters
time for private reflection
the committal (e.g. closing of the curtain or lowering of the coffin).
Each service can be tailored to suit your wishes and your family’s wishes.
Who can conduct a humanist or non-religious funeral?
Anyone can lead a humanist or non-religious funeral. You are not required to have a religious official conduct the service.
Possible officiants include:
a family member
a partner or close friend
a funeral celebrant (trained to conduct religious or non-religious services)
a humanist celebrant (trained specifically in secular services).
If you’re planning your own funeral, celebrants typically meet with you to gather stories and preferences. This allows them to prepare a ceremony that is meaningful and personal. If that’s not possible, they will meet with your family and friends before the ceremony.
Can a humanist funeral be held in a church?
While the Church of England allows funerals for non-religious individuals, a humanist funeral is usually more suited to a secular venue. If you or your loved one lived according to humanist values, you may wish to choose a location that aligns with those beliefs.
Popular venues for humanist funerals include:
crematorium chapels
cemetery chapels
woodland or natural burial grounds
public parks
community halls
private homes
music venues or football grounds
any meaningful or personal space (subject to permissions).
What happens after a humanist funeral?
As with any religious ceremony, a humanist funeral is often followed by a reception or wake. This may be at a family member’s home or a hired venue. Alternatively, you may want a memorial service at a later date.
How long does a humanist funeral last?
The duration of a humanist funeral depends on what is included in the service. On average, most services last around 30 minutes.
How much does a humanist funeral cost?
The cost of a humanist funeral can vary based on the location and venue, the choice of celebrant and any additional services such as flowers, transport or catering.